From a woman's perspective..... I don't want a guy to half-arsed ask me out. "I would like to grab a drink with you, which day works best for you, I am open, Mon and Tuesday" would be the optimal way of asking someone out. You only asked her out halfway. The ball is NOT in her court now! Ask a woman out fully! The ball is in her court when you says "I am open so-and so day, what works for you" Why are you waiting for her to lock a day? It's like you asked her out and expect her to pay for the date, you know what I mean? I know it's been a while since you have really been out in the dating world. But even today, us women still enjoy a man who can ask us out properly. Are these dating coaches telling you to suggest a drink then wait for her to choose a date without even being asked when works for her?
And LH, you have a very heavy number of dates here! How have they been? Does anyone make it farther than the first date? How is the quality of these dates? I am curious on how much quality the quanitity produces
