Uncertain of What I Have

[burned]

Mentioned before that she’s said that there is no OM, but I can’t help but wonder.

Believe nothing they say.

I struggle with: Is there OM?

Believe nothing they say.

Is she making plans to get out and I just don’t know?

Believe only half of what they do.

Is she being truthful when she tells me not to take lack of sex personally because she’s tired / needs physical and emotional space from the kiddos?

BELIEVE NOTHING THEY SAY.

The thing I wonder about is: what do you get as an anniversary gift for a woman who has twice told you she isn’t sure she even wants to be married to you? Lol.

Nothing. You give her the gift of letting go.

Edit: I should add my own theory here that helped me make sense out of my W's inconsistencies. Believe nothing they say, and consider the possibility that they're doing the exact opposite of what they say. For me, "I'm not seeing him anymore" probably meant, "I'm back with him but I don't want you to know that's the reason I'm Ding you."