Sorry, AS—gave someone else credit for the thermostat metaphor, not you. My bad.
Mentioned before that she’s said that there is no OM, but I can’t help but wonder.
I struggle with: Is there OM? Is she making plans to get out and I just don’t know? Is she being truthful when she tells me not to take lack of sex personally because she’s tired / needs physical and emotional space from the kiddos?
Thanks for the affirmation that detachment takes time. Will continue to get there.
The thing I wonder about is: what do you get as an anniversary gift for a woman who has twice told you she isn’t sure she even wants to be married to you? Lol.
