Hi Bo and yes detach more. Don’t get triggered, and I’m no expert but I would think that when feelings are no longer reciprocated, resentment starts to kick in. It Is normal to feel this way. You can gal or detach but if you have questions like that post them here. I think it’s good to have conversations about these emotions to understand them, that they’re normal and it’s okay to feel them. Some would also say you’ve reached a turning point when you no longer see things through rose colored glasses, you see them for what they are, and it can be a time for change. You’re starting to make those changes.


At first it was hard for me to hear my W calling me by my first name so I called her by hers. She quickly changed it to something else like daddy so I call her momma but I would still use her name too, whichever rolls off the tongue at the time.

Post any time you feel like it. Wouldn’t be surprised to see people being up late here, posting to decompress, so share in.


H 49 , W 47
T 23, M 17
S11, S5
BD: 7/18
IHS: 7/18 - 3/19
Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19
Piecing: 4/19 - Current

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