Trust me our emotions are like rollercoaster one minute we are strong then we feel hopeless.
But is all Normal feelings.. After 1yr 8months am still more sad then ever.
But is ok to feel this way. I have posted notes to myself saying Is ok to not be ok Is not you fault Today is a new day
I must say these reminder notes help me alot
As everyone has said. Stay away from H I know is easier said than done But find things to do.
I know when W left I thought it was the end. But I have read some pretty bad stories of MLC Stay at home. I am so glad W left, WAW
I can't imagine waking up to a monster everyday or even sleeping In the same roof. My W did that for a while walking around, making noise I couldn't sleep I honestly thought I wasn't going to wake I am scared of my W.
So you do what's best for you and S. Financial Emotional Mentally Physically Always protect you and S.
You have a long road.
But remember is ok to not be ok And is ok to cry is ok...
Stay strong Living
Thank you so much Marina7, I love the idea of the post it notes. I think I’ll make some and put them on my bathroom mirror. That way when I look at myself in the mirror each morning, I’ll be reminded of the strong woman looking back at me.
It’s definitely tough living in the same house with him. First he said he would move out now he’s saying he’s not moving out. I guess it’s true that I really can’t trust or believe what he says. I’m not sure why a man who claims he wants out of this marriage, who claims he’s soooooo unhappy, won’t just move out. But nothing about him right now makes sense. So I’m done trying to understand him.
The only choice I have is to take care of my and my son and like others on this thread has said, leave my H to his mess.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
