8th MC session yesterday. Went well. W began by saying about how she knows she was kind of bitchy over the holidays when I tried helping with things. She apologized and said she needs to work on that.
We then talked about the last session (W's resentments), and that somehow lead into talking about W's EA a bit. MC tried explaining the overall pattern/reasons for any type of A. Said I am doing well with not bringing it up much, but also said it usually takes a year to regain trust. W didn't say much, except the usual of 'there's no excuse for it, it was just a fantasy world, I hope he can trust me again, etc.' W also said that she's fully committed to 'us' now, and will do whatever it takes. That was nice to hear, although, it's just still words at this point.
MC also admitted that thus far we've been focusing on W's issues towards me, and the reason being was she wanted to get W back to being fully committed. I kinda figured that, but was good of MC to say. She also said that thus far it seems that I'm doing most of the 'work', and that W will need to start meeting my needs. She didn't say it as bluntly as that, but was the gist of it. W agreed
Overall, I think things are going well. I've been busy as hell with our son since wrestling season has started (I'm a coach). So not a ton of time to GAL, but son and I are at practice several nights a week which is good bonding time for us.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
