I just want to use the MC as a forum for communication.
That is never going to work. MC is for two people to work on their marriage together. Not so that one is sure to have a forum that his obstinate spouse has to listen to him.
That is pressure. That is pursuit.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018