Tell yourself that it will be the house that bore witness to the depths of human despair as well as the soaring heights of ecstasy that come with the rebirth of love. Maybe the suffering is what it takes, the last renovation that makes the house/home indestructible. At the very least it will make YOU indestructible.
You’ll do better at being a roommate if you’re never home. GAL, be out and about. Even if it’s just at a coffee shop. It doesn’t have to be like that forever. But first you have to weather this storm, especially today.
I want to apologize to the moderators for saying a bad word. I will be sure not to do that in the future.
Thank you Burned! It’s difficult but I know I’ll survive. It’s not what I planned for my life but here I am. I’m working more now so that will take up more of my time and GAL will help take up the rest of my time. I truly appreciate your insight and advice.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
