You can´t fix her Did. She can, but she must want to do it. Pressuring pushes her to the evasion road. MC does that, pushes her away.
Be there for D4 but go dark. No more "she" in your posts man. Time to restart DB. I think we have had this conversation some posts ago. Time to save yourself now. Time to heal the wounds. D4 needs you healthy Did. It´s about you and D4 now.