Stay strong. It’s OK to feel what you feel. The emotions come out because you’ve made changes. Change is never comfortable. It makes you confront your fears. But I’ll tell you what others told me: maybe you’re afraid that what you did made things WORSE, that the M is getting closer to ending. But maybe you’re wrong. Maybe you’re just setting the stage. Building a house. You have to dig a hole in the ground to put in a foundation before the rest of the house goes up.
Thank you Burned.
I just got a text message from him saying that after thinking about things, he’s not moving out. He said he’s not moving out until we sell or rent out our home. He said it doesn’t make financial sense for him to move out of the house. We just bought our house this year. There’s no way we can sell it right now. He said we will have to figure out how to coexist until that happens.
I’m sooooo p!ssed! How did this become my life? This was supposed to be the house we fixed up and made a home. He said he would move out and now he’s going back on that. How the h3ll can we just live like roommates for the next couple of years? D@mn this [censored]!!!!!
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Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
