Sandi's Reflections - Part 2

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WW's are very resentful toward the H. They will rewrite history and make it sound as if they were treated terribly, had to sacrifice happiness, etc. It's a way they try to justify what they are doing currently. She knows having an affair is wrong, but she'll try to justify it by making you out to be the bad guy.

Don't acknowledge her text. She's baiting you into a fight. You know the truth, and you won't make her change her mind or admit how it really was.

I suggest you stop responding to any texts that does not ask a direct question about the kids. You can tell when she is on a rampage, so don't get hooked by responding.

Thank you Sandi. Detach and GAL is at minimum protecting me emotionally. I spoke with an attorney. He said do not move out. He said that I am being very mature about this and that the longer I stay and keep acting like I am, at minimum it builds a better R with kids and shows them how to be a mature adult. He said that it looks great in court that I can detach and focus on the kids without conflict because it shows I'm invested in the kids.