I'm not sure why you haven't told your family. At this point it may help you feel better to air it out.
As for your husband, he's in lala land still. How are you feeling inside?
Are you getting out with friends at all? I know finding someone to watch your daughter was a big thing, but maybe there's activities she can attend? I dunno, I'm not a parent but I think if there's a will there's a way.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.