Regarding above the sex therapist I’ve seen hasn’t worked with sex stuff. She is a well known marriage counselor and we’ve been focusing on that.
Can someone remind me not to see or talk to my wife any more than I have to. She still affects me a lot. Just got d4s stuff from her and she must have said she was going to lay down 5 times in 5 minutes. Acting like she wanted me to pursue or follow her. I’m so tired of this. It’s difficult for me so I think the better thing is just not to see her.
At mc mon I’ll tell her what I believe the issues are and she can decide if she wants to work on herself to change them. If not I continue to go dark and work to accept divorce. I can’t make her do the work or change. She holds all her traumas in she was hit as a kid by her mom. She cries about her car and hasn’t talked about her accident. She needs Ic as much as me. She can do the work and I’ll be open to seeing her. Or she can continue to not do the work and I get the F outta this leeway place.
I'm going to remind you not to see her or talk to her. You need to do this for YOUR OWN SAKE. Get away from the craziness my man! And stick to it!
You are the king of saying "I'm not talking to her" like you did in this post, and then telling us how you're going to talk to her in the next paragraph when you say "at MC Monday I'll tell her....".... You ain't telling her crap! Sorry, but that's the way it is. So go back to the "I'm not talking to her" and let her be.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
