WW has been acting SUPER friendly to me, since we closed down the final attachment strings (house going for sale and financials being separated). She asks me a lot of questions, smiles, tries to engage in conversation, cooks, and wants to make my meals.
This is a very common reaction, when everything appears to be going like the WW wants. Suddenly, the pressure is off her and she wants to play buddy-buddy with the H she has rejected. Glad you aren't fooled,
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I have been setting up a bucket list of european capitals that I want to visit over the next years, and I am exited about going. I also have been looking for a new job, because I believe this is a "reboot" of my life, and that I really need it to be a total reboot.
Fantastic!
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Her phone is on the table counter with an open display, so I can't but notice when im in the kitchen, and it lights up with texts and snapchats from this man, and it does often - I shouldn't care, but I do (still, im faking it till I make it - or at least till im out of this house).
Well you still don't like feeling disrespected in your own home! I think if I were in your shoes, I would look at her thoroughly disgusted and leave the room. She doesn't have enough sense to even treat you with as much kindness or respect than she would show a total stranger. I'm so sorry, b/c it must hurt deeper than anything you've experienced.
You love the girl you first married. If you had seen this side of her before the wedding, plans may have been altered. But anyway, when her fantasy world comes crashing down around her......you'll be off living your life to the fullest. She'll probably try to play on your feelings as long as she feels she gets something selfish out of the deal. Just keep your eyes opened and don't let her catch you unaware of her manipulative behavior.
((hugs)
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Fantastic!