And to a certain degree, if we don't have SOME kind of expectations, how do we truly prepare for all situations? If we expect to be D we can do our due diligence in protecting ourselves. If we just leave it up to fate and focus only on ourselves and GAL, can we really prepare for each situation as it comes? Or are we always just reacting on the fly? I'm someone who does better with a bit of mental preparedness, so do I just expect the worst, but give it up to the universe to determine the actual path?
Yail, I found until I could really let go of expectations that me being prepared was actually causing more damage. I was setting myself up for failure. I think most of us would agree that you can't really live life on the fly especially when it comes to major decisions. I still prepare for things but put in extra effort now to prepare for multiple outcomes. I don't really expect D but I am prepared for it. I don't expect R but am prepared for it. I don't expect W to move out but am prepared for it just as I am prepared for her to stay in the house.
