Day 122

W is still very sick. I am at work and a friend is looking after her and D4. W texted me that she is scared. I asked her to call the doctor right now. She said she was afraid and didn't want to. I told her that I'm echoing the same question I asked her two days ago when she was uncertain about going to the ER - Stay and suffer or go and try to get fixed? Few moments later she told me she booked an appointment for this afternoon.

I asked her if she wants me to take her or not. She told me she is too weak to decide. I told her to be ready an hour before and told her friend to take W to the doctor. Ended the conversation by requesting she get a hold of me if she needs me there. No response yet.

So...I feel like I'm taking control of a situation that I would have been a little apprehensive (don't piss her off, is she comfortable enough, etc.). I just told her that this is what she is going to do.

Don't know if this asserting control of the situation without being aggressive or if there was a "smoother" way of trying to get her to do things.

Last edited by pain18; 11/28/18 07:33 PM.

1/6/18-BD OM1
2/18-W meets OM2
4/18-W intros D4 to OM2
5/18-“Romance ends"
7/18-DB start
7/18-IHS Ends
4/19-WW moves out
3/21-D filed

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