Caught up on that thread, great stuff. I slipped up today with pursuit. We're on a week on week off schedule with the kids and W said she was going to be out her week w/o the kids (next week). I asked her what days she was out next week so I could plan around it, but in reality I dont need to know because it's my week with the kids. She understood, thought I wanted to know what she was doing, but I made it clear that I don't. She then stated that we should share info about time out of the house, for security reasons (she has high anxiety issues, so any time the door chime goes off from the security system, she mildly panics unless she expects someone). I told her that we shouldn't share those things, but she has for the most part anyway (details about when she is coming and going, not where or what she's doing). I can see both sides of the argument - it would be respectful to share while we're IHS, but on the other side of the coin, it's intrusive (and against DB principles). I'm torn.
