Ovr, your WW is full of turmoil. She has no clue what she wants. Do you really think talking to the priest will help in anyway? Would it be her way of justifying how she tried and it still did not help? Or do you think she is looking for direction and she is actually in a frame of mind where it may help? I am sure she isnt planning to bring up OM during this discussion with the priest, what are you planning to learn/gain from talking to the priest?