Sandi and Neffer, such great advice here, as always thanks so much. As a LBW it is so hard to understand the extreme WS perspective but reading here helps so much. Also, I am not sure most WAS have the grit and commitment you possess, it might be value system or just personalities. To make mistakes is human, if we hadnt none of us would be here WAS or LBS.
Neffer, In your own sitch, did it take declining of your A to get clarity or was it seeing your W let go that reminded of what was being lost?