[quote=burned] Remember that at your stage, there's still a LOT you can do to influence the outcome. You have SO much to work with
I started by not doing anything. I always wanted to initiate R talk, initiate OM talk, initiate D talk. When things started changing was when I GAL, started reading, concentrating on me, dropping expectations etc. Do a LOT.....of things for yourself.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019