Thanks, Steve. One of the reasons it was recommended I do it was also to say that I did everything in my power to get her back. I feel I have done enough to have no regrets at the end of the day, so I won't do this.
Another thing i realized. If it took me letting go to truly self-reflect on an even deeper level than I had months ago, I imagine my W will only be able to do this once she truly feels the loss of this marriage (after divorce). Not saying she will ever come back, but I'm sure it will hit her a lot harder than me once it goes through. I guess that's the advantage of being the LBS (if there is one). I am the one to struggle on the front end for the last 10 months, but I have to imagine this will weigh on her heavily after the D. I'm sure I will have my share of struggles after everything goes through, but to be able to say I did everything possible to reconcile will surely make my road on this journey less of a burden than what my W is going to feel.
