“No kissing. She may actually be repulsed by the thought of kissing you right now, as much as a shock as that may be to you it happens a lot with WAS's. It's fine to wish her "goodnight", there's nothing in DB'ing that says to be cold/ rude/ indifferent.”
I do see that—I would kiss her on the cheek / arm and say ‘goodnight,’ but I wouldn’t get a kiss back. Might be what you are describing.