Cadet—

I get what you’re saying. I do. She wants the space. Tho my IC told me to work more on the relationship.

Where I then struggle is what feels like yo-yo’ing. February? Talk of separation / divorce. October? Talk of separation taking a break. In between? Like nothing happened. Almost kinda like she’s the woman I married.

In other words....so confused. Thanks for putting up with.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19