^^^^^exactly the person and the post I was hoping for.

Living, I think you just reached a very important "stage" or "phase" or whatever, very early in your DBing process, that will save you months of suffering if you stick to your guns. Let the healing begin.

H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")