Harvey, you need to set her free. I ´d go dark and be only for the kids. It´s up to you. Keeping hope but controlling expectations. Then you need to detach and keep working on yourself. Be the best father for the girls and get the PMA.Stay away from social networks, they are anxiety generators. Clear your mind, GAL and take care of yourself.
Originally Posted by FlySolo
Good for you. Only comment is you do not need to explain yourself. It sounds like you are forcing consequences down her throat. You do not need to do that. She knows the consequences and force feeding them to her will only make her resent you more. A simple "Appreciate the offer but I can't come down early. I have other plans".
Agree with FS. There´s no need to lecture her. She knows, she knows...release that pressure.
Stay strong man, it´s cloudy today but the sun is there. Take your time. Keep posting.
