13 yrs and two kids pt. 2.

[Twofeet]

Hurt,

Do you know what a narcissist is? I am not saying she is one, but there sounds like some tendencies. She is playing you and OM off each other and making this all about her. Don't engage, I understand that you are hurting, but don't vent your true feelings to her. You got to seriously stop doing that. Do it here on the board. Stay calm, validate her emotions when needed and move on. It also sounds like she wants to be a mother only when its convenient for her. Your kids are very young and need consistency. You will have to step up because it doesn't sound like she will. Be the rock for your children.