Now facing divorce

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I sense you will do the right thing by your wife-and your kids-
I really do-


I personally did everything within my power during D to keep my kids safe

It bothered me to know they may be sleeping at my XH Beach apartment with the OW there
I didn't know who she was at the time-and it scared me to have another women raising my kids-influencing them
Especially the kind of woman who cheats with her boss-

I may have let him have visitation, until I found out they were using and drinking excessively,
and my then 5 year old had life threatening allergies-I fought hard-

I didn't fight to take him down- I did it to self protect the three of us-
I could not stop his negative choices but I could protect my innocent kids and I did

I am grateful beyond belief that I did this, and both my kids are very well today-never met her

When it came between us and him- my main concern was to make sure we were financially stable and safe-

He finally chose to move out of state when he M OW-
last I heard he was deep into drugs and D

But we don't keep in any touch with him nor do his sisters-

D is a tough time-Emotions run high and sometimes our pain clouds us-
I sense you will do what's fair-

and in time when you see her direction -you may have to intervene for the kids-
if it is true MLC- she will continue to decline-