[burned]

I’m taking my power back. Guys I may not be doing things exactly the way I should but I’m taking my freaking power back.

So I get home and notice that he didn’t move his things in the other room. OK so I never answered your question. You could have still taken the initiative to move your things into the other room.

So as wrong as I may be and some of you may chastise me for this...this morning after he left for work, I moved all his clothes, shoes, and toiletries into the other room myself. You want a divorce? You want to be separated? Let’s start acting like it.

I’m done trying to save my marriage. I’ve been the only one trying to save it and all it has gotten me is hurt, lied to, lead on, confused, mistreated, and betrayed. I’m over it.

Hmm. I’m not too familiar with your sitch but this right here sounds OK to me. You get fed up and you start standing up for yourself, they take notice. You regain some of the respect you lost. Wonder what other people are thinking, but I don’t see this as a bad thing. Paradoxically it might move you in the direction of saving your M.