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Yesterday H asked me if it would be easier for me if he moved all of his things in the other room (the one he’s sleeping in) and start sharing a bathroom with our son. I didn’t respond at all to the text.

Then when he got home from work i held the door for him while he carried the groceries in, he said thanks, I said you’re welcome. I was heading out anyway so I didn’t say anything else. I just hoped in the car and closed the garage. He then comes out of the garage and ask me “sooo is this how we are doing things now?” I asked him what he meant. He said “so you can’t say goodbye?”

Like Hugh what??? So I didn’t respond the way you thought I should and now you’re upset? I will admit that I’m angry with him. I’ve admitted that here in the forum. However, when he thanked me for opening the door for him I politely said you’re welcome. Bottom line I’m tired of his BS.

For the past year I’ve worked my ass off to try and save this marriage. I’ve bent over backwards for a man that betrayed me in the worst ways. I’ve given a man a second chance that couldn’t even have the courage to come tell me he was unhappy in our marriage. No but he was able to go put his heart out to the chick he cheated on me with last year. He told a total freaking stranger his feelings before he even told me...his freaking wife.

I’ve given my all to this marriage and I don’t deserve the way he has treated me. So yes LH 19 it’s not fair for him to call all the shots. I’m taking my power back. Guys I may not be doing things exactly the way I should but I’m taking my freaking power back.

So I get home and notice that he didn’t move his things in the other room. OK so I never answered your question. You could have still taken the initiative to move your things into the other room.

So as wrong as I may be and some of you may chastise me for this...this morning after he left for work, I moved all his clothes, shoes, and toiletries into the other room myself. You want a divorce? You want to be separated? Let’s start acting like it.

I’m done trying to save my marriage. I’ve been the only one trying to save it and all it has gotten me is hurt, lied to, lead on, confused, mistreated, and betrayed. I’m over it.