Lots more thinking today. Concentrating on me...and less on my H. Slowly but surely starting to find my footing again. I know there are lots of hits to come...the biggest being the inevitable separation of finances and custody issues. Also...I fully expect there to be an OW showing up at some point. I know he’s been adamant there is not but I think that is because he doesn’t want people thinking he is more of an @ss than they already do. But I know him. I know it is a very real...dare I say likely...possibility. So there will be hits. But I am determined to be in a much better place by the time they come.
DV6, do you have a support system in place and on call once the hits of separation of finances/custody, OW, etc.? Even now, even after I suspected there is something horrible going on between W and OM, I still get walloped and taken down when I find more info about their doings. I am not surprised, I am just hurt at how the woman I once loved would act like this. When I find out, I'm usually out of the house for a long period of time, driving to a rest stop along the freeway and bawling my eyes out asking God to put me out of my misery.
I am not sure how you will handle those, but I do want you to prepare.
