Is love worth the pain? Back to Basics

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Haha no I have a high sex drive no impedance, if anything I am too into the physical aspect of love. The sex therapist I see does couples therapy and works on intimacy and sexual things. In my case she was referred by a man I know well and trust. She did great things for his marriage. She is also well known an author and Ted talks etc she has been the best therapist of the 3 Ive seen for IC and MC. I think they overlap a lot. And intimacy, trust, how to touch each other etc.

Also my W had talked about fantasies with 2 partners, threesomes and sharing... when we slept together 2 months ago. We had both been seeing other people and the 2 guys she dated were into that stuff.... She is all over the place. I dont think she even got to the point to be able to talk about that stuff since she did just 1 IC appt.

Im going to focus on self confidence and have the mentality you wanted to leave go ahead. Ill be the best man and dad you ever had a chance to have.