Wanted, Don't get me wrong, I still am no where near detached and probably won't be for a long time, D scares the hell out of me and it is the last thing I want. But I find focusing on some of the positives helps me through the day. I get the income tax concerns but at the end of the day so what.
If you haven't yet read it, go get a copy of "The subtle art of not giving a F@$*". It is a great book and puts into perspective what is important and what to focus on, also what doesn't really matter and isn't worth your time.
I just started listening to it on audible!
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19