I’m ready to get off the ride and unfortunately he wants out of the marriage but wants to wait to move out when he feels we are financially able to support ourselves individually. So it looks like I’m stuck living with him for a while.
What does Living want? Nobody says he gets to call the shots.
Originally Posted by Living
I just want him to leave me alone and stop pursuing me. It makes it a bit harder for me because I’m not the one who wants the divorce. As long as he leaves me alone it seems to be easier for me.
Sounds like it is time for Living to start setting some boundaries.
Living wants the husband that she married. Living wants to remain married. But what I don’t want is to continue to be hurt and taken through the ringer. I can’t take it anymore. So maybe I can’t get what I want but I can get what is best. That may be a life where he isn’t there to hurt me anymore.
It’s crazy that it takes two to get married but only one person can decide to end the marriage. I’m ANGRY that my husband didn’t give working on our marriage a fair shot. I’m angry that he didn’t put forth the effort. I’m angry that he is walking away for reasons I don’t understand and reasons that don’t make sense to me. I know he’s entitled to his feelings but I feel like he’s taking the coward way out. He’s running rather than being willing to give it his all. I’m ANGRY!!!!!
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
