1) No that would not be wrong. 2) Instead of short circuiting, after listening and validating. "I’ve decided against going to the Retrouovaille. I feel that it would just be going through the motions at this point. I’m going to start individual counseling on my own. A lot has happened and I need help processing it so I can heal and move forward." (Oh, and then start going to IC!) 3) Don't do #3.
I've evolved since I suggested short-circuiting. Tonight is a chance for you to be the listener and validater that you hven't been before. Once she said her peace, and you validated, then you can say the above line.
Last edited by Steve85; 11/27/1809:15 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
