Originally Posted by TJT
I read something once... that talked about one of the worst things about suffering being the consciousness that we are suffering.


This is great to keep in mind. Kind of like how "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself". Harry Potter's boggart.

Originally Posted by TJT
I do know he switches jobs a lot because he's never really happy,... I do feel like that behavior is somehow related to this, but I can't quite put my finger on the mechanics of it.


Oh look we really did marry the same person! I wonder if it has to do with them finding their purpose in life? Feeling valued, ability to grow and connect to the world around them?