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[TJT]

Right now this means barely any communication, so I have the worry you do that my W may not realize I'm an option. But they know. Just as we know them, they know us. We've expressed our love for them in our past actions. If they are able to come back they will know we can listen.

Thanks for posting, Yail. I don't think I've read your sitch yet so I'll go find it later today after my afternoon meetings.

You're right and I've reminded myself of this, too. He knows me. I've emphasized what I'm willing to do and my commitment multiple times leading up to this. While he could have the same doubt about "maybe she's changed her mind" (for the negative), if he was really wanting to try, I think he'd probably be (at least he should be) more confident than not about how I would respond. I like how you worded it - "if they are ABLE to come back".

I also echo the sentiments to Steve... Steve, I really appreciate your input and dedication to responding, even if the "swirl" of one's mind is exhausting. Sometimes I do feel the sting of the harshness, and completely agree that sometimes it's like "easier said than done, don't you understand?!" but I definitely know the intent and wouldn't ask you to stop for anything! Well...maybe if my H would come back... LOL. *laughs at own desperation*