What if I told you that in 95.75% of the cases, talking about filing for D is actually an indicator that HE IS RETHINKING THINGS. The WAS is often confused. Especially if the LBS starts to move on. The WAS starts to be eaten up with thoughts of "am I doing the right thing here?" And with most humans, when they start having doubts on something they've convinced themselves they want, they take action.....or the illusion of action. Thus "Hey, I am going to file for D but need your help."
Steve, I appreciate your intent with this post. But please, you know most of us LBS are a wreck. Please don't post statistics unless they are actual statistics. We all want to do the work while simultaneously having hope to stand strong, but pretty soon we'll start quoting that number as gospel.
I do, however, see your point and agree that the move towards filing is often an attempt by the WAS to push through their own doubt.
Sorry, I shouldn't have been flippant. The point I was making was that it was a majority of the time.
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