Adam, I'm glad Sandi jumped in because I wanted to say the same thing. She said it better, though. Which is good because I'm terrible at boundaries, and that's partly what got me here.

Time for you to order the Cloud & Townsend "Boundaries" book from Amazon with overnight shipping.

H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")