TJT, I'm sure it makes sense to a lot of people here. And there you go again making me think that you're secretly a computer that can read my mind and take my thoughts, replace "W" with "H" and call it a day. You. Are not alone.
Originally Posted by Steve85
What if I told you that in 95.75% of the cases, talking about filing for D is actually an indicator that HE IS RETHINKING THINGS. The WAS is often confused. Especially if the LBS starts to move on. The WAS starts to be eaten up with thoughts of "am I doing the right thing here?" And with most humans, when they start having doubts on something they've convinced themselves they want, they take action.....or the illusion of action. Thus "Hey, I am going to file for D but need your help."
Steve, that right there is an eye-opener. I'm going to let it percolate a bit...TJT, since we seem to think along the same dimensions, does it resonate with you? I recall a conversation with my parents a few weeks ago when I said, "W is stubborn as a mule, and it's usually when she doubts herself most that she starts making strong moves." Something along those lines, anyway.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")