[Wanted1]

Do not bring it up again. If she asks "are we going?" then you tell her "no I changed my mind" and leave it at that.

I can tell you are dying to call her out on texting your buddy.

I will not call her out. Trust me. She replied back to my text in the meantime and said that my mom mentioned she could watch the kids and my W just replied thank you. She then said "I have a few thoughts on it but we can talk tonight if you want."

I feel like I need to respond with something --- I thinking, "No, that's OK. I've thought more about it and I don't think I want to go."