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Thank you for your insight. This truly is one of the toughest things I’ve ever had to deal with.

Absolutely! Me too, but I survived and am now thriving and so will you.

My husband wants out of this marriage. He seems to be making that clear. While we continue to live he stays on a constant cycle of pursuing me. I cant deal with it anymore.

That's how he feels today. Tomorrow who knows?

I think since he is positive he wants out he needs to go and live on his own and see what life without me will be like. I’m tired of the roller coaster ride.

Just so you know the roller coaster ride doesn't stop when he moves out. It stops when YOU decide you don't want to go for the ride anymore.

You are sooooo early in your sitch. This unfortunately takes infinite patience.

I’m afraid you’re right. He seems to change his mind like the weather. However, I’m exhausted. I’m ready to get off the ride and unfortunately he wants out of the marriage but wants to wait to move out when he feels we are financially able to support ourselves individually. So it looks like I’m stuck living with him for a while. So until he moves out the only thing I can do is continue to take care of myself. I just want him to leave me alone and stop pursuing me. It makes it a bit harder for me because I’m not the one who wants the divorce. As long as he leaves me alone it seems to be easier for me.