pain, I am going to get a little graphic here but play along.

What if I told you that your W had been part of a 100 man gang-bang session? How would you react to that? It would be shocking and completely unexpected right? It would cause you spin and make you wonder who she was.

Since BD your W has SHOWN you exactly who she is. Is the IUD really such a major revelation that it is completely out of the norm of what you would expect from her right now? I'd argue that it is not. The 100 man gang-bang? THAT would be shocking and out of the norm.

My point is that I do not understand why LBSs are so blindsided by things that they already knew their WAS/WS was capable of. I take that back, it is what sandi refers to as holding onto the image you have of the person you married, and not facing the reality of the person they've become.

This is who she has been for months now. Why does it shock you? Because you haven't faced the reality of who she has become.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018