Will be pretty awkward explaining to the rest of them why W isn't along, if nothing happens in the meantime that will make our situation public, but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.
Wanted, I was worried about this one myself before it became public. Big waste of energy. Everyone was so supportive and quite frankly it is so common that no one even bats an eye.
To be honest with you, many of my friends are jealous of me now because I am dating beautiful woman and they are stuck in dead marriages.
Funny how life turns out.
I think it helps me a little bit for the fact that I think more people know about her infidelities in our town that her or I knew about. The first one was with one of my best friends here in our hometown. I think people pretty much deduced what happened when we were no longer hanging out. Plus, I think best friend's W ran her mouth a bit and tried to bad mouth my W in an attempt to justify her H's actions. I got a sense that she was telling everyone what an evil temptress my W was.
In the end, the truth will probably eventually come out. Maybe not everything but bits and pieces and I guess I don't think anyone would blame me for D in light of even some of the facts.
I've always had an issue worrying about what everyone else thinks about a lot of things in life. That is one of my own, personal, 180s that I'm trying to make. No one should care what anyone else thinks.
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19