I definitely have an urge to remind him that this is not what I want and that my goal is to become his teammate in life and grow together and see everything we could accomplish together. I have the text drafted but I have not sent it.
Pursuit. It won't help. Write it in your journal and save it for later. Someday he might be ready to hear it.
Originally Posted by Steve85
I see a lot of LBWs struggling with this. The H could be living in Timbuktu. Never contacting the LBW. Sleeping with 8 different women a night. Or even worse. But the LBW is so afraid of the D being filed.
You need to realize that filing for D is nothing more than a legal process. It does nothing to help nor hurt your sitch.
Steve, I've been struggling with this, too. Can you elaborate your thought process on this?
H: 35 W: 33 M: 11 T: 13
4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")
