[Wanted1]

W,

SHE WANTS OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS, SHE WANTS OUT OF THE MARRIAGE.

Consequences for getting your respect back would be telling her to pack her $hit and get out of the house and you'll be hearing from my lawyer and I should have done it the first time you cheated on me.

The first part is pretty obvious. I just don't understand what she is waiting for.....other than both her IC and the Bishop last Friday telling her she isn't in a position, emotionally, to make major decisions. She is too fragile.

As for the second part, I'm getting very, very close to being at that point. I honestly am. Maybe I'll just sit on it until after this weekend and think everything over a little more. If I'm still in the same frame of mind a week from now, I'll give her the boot.

I know the chances of this happening are about the same as winning the lottery, but what if she does say, "OK, let's go to Retrouvaille?" How do I respond then? I just want to be prepared for either scenario, even if one scenario is very far fetched. EDIT: I see Steve pretty much answered this question in a previous post above. I'll just say, No, I've decided against it at this time.