Steve.
Thanks for the response. I always value your input.

I am serious about filing. I'm emailing her today. We have almost everything worked out except the big things (of course). Here are the options I am sending:

1) We hopefully agree and file jointly.

2) We don't agree, but still file jointly and move it forward.

3) I file.

Our conversation this weekend briefly touched on the fact that we need to get this done so we can move on to the being the best co-parents we can be for our kids. Questions keep coming up that in the past would have been easy. Now they are difficult since we aren't a team any longer. Just the tip of the iceberg I know, but I want to get this big stuff done so we can all move on and my kids can get some stability.

Do you think the email is appropriate? I am staying as dark, but some things need to either keep or just get moving.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18