SHE WANTS OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS, SHE WANTS OUT OF THE MARRIAGE.
Maybe this is the hang up with you. That you actually thought she was trying to figure out what she wants.
Have you done any research on boundaries? Consequences for breaking boundaries are not you saying "I disapprove" to get your respect back.
Consequences for getting your respect back would be telling her to pack her $hit and get out of the house and you'll be hearing from my lawyer and I should have done it the first time you cheated on me.
Don't even bring up Retroville because I guarantee you she was never considering it and will never bring it up. You only want to bring it up to try to get a reaction out of her.
