The week out with the kids was great! We had fun. One or two little incidents with attitudes, but when doesn't that happen. I made sure the kids were in contact with their Mom. We never spoke the entire week. It was weird, good and sad all at the same time.
She moved to her new place last week as well and began staying there. The kids and I got home on Saturday and we spend the night in our home, then their Mom came and got them on Sunday morning. I left the home to make it easier on everyone.
W and I had a small conversation on my return. It was pleasant. She actually talked about missing things and how its going to be difficult. At one point she said that it might be better to work things out. I didn't jump. I validated and listened. I'm sure its just a temp check and an initial down from missing the kids.
I did mention that we need to get everything finalized and filed. She, of course, acted as it she hadn't thought of anything (which may be true) while we were gone.
I cannot state any longer that my family is together in the same house. I can honestly say that my anxiety has diminished. I just miss my family. Keeping busy. GAL all the way.
Talked to my S briefly last night so that felt good.
Working through each day moving forward one step at a time. I am a good person. I am a good father. I have actual value in this world to offer.
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
