Unfortunately after following this board for four years you see the patterns and it becomes pretty predictable how it's going to play out.
The good news is that you are doing everything right on your end and not pursuing him and pushing further away.
Since we don't think he is in an active affair IMO you shouldn't try to push him out. Continue to double down on your GAL and let him be for now.
I truly believe in these sitches that men are more likely to change their minds then women.
Thank you for your insight. This truly is one of the toughest things I致e ever had to deal with.
My husband wants out of this marriage. He seems to be making that clear. While we continue to live he stays on a constant cycle of pursuing me. I cant deal with it anymore.
I think since he is positive he wants out he needs to go and live on his own and see what life without me will be like. I知 tired of the roller coaster ride.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
