'This is different from what W told me yesterday."
Shocking. NOT
Believe nothing they say.............. Not sure how many more times you need to hear that.
"What do you all think? And what do you think about waiting a year to try to R?"
Completely up to you. No one would blame you if you pulled the plug. But no one will think less of you if you give her this year. You have to decide what is right for YOU, not for her or anyone else. That is what detachment is.
'I wish she would have explained it to me this way like my SIL did instead of just saying that we can’t get back together..."
Back to "Believe nothing she says". Not sure you really believe that.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
